Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

 Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People 

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

Dale Carnegie gave us one very powerful and effective technique in order to handling people. He tells us not to make fun of people and also not to bug about something because you don’t like the way in which they are doing that you do not like. His quote that is given to us in a way that is of a simile. In the quote he tells us if we want honey, don’t kick over the beehive. Well you might say what does that mean. He is saying if you want (friends) don’t push them away from yourself.

Technique 2: Give Honest and sincere appreciation.

"The big secret in dealing with people"

Dale Carnegie is telling us that in order to having a good talk with certain people you should be as honest as possible to everything and appreciate everything that they bring to the table. In the quote that is given to us he tells us that being honest and appreciative will lead you to being good with most people whom come across your way.

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.

"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walk a lonely way."

In the quote given to us here by Dale he states that the people who show eager in what they want they will have the world with each other. If you don’t show eager in meeting new people then you will be the exact opposite. You will be one of those people who will see this world as a dark place.

Final Reflection: From these three fundamentals in handling people I learned a lot from them and they give us pretty good advice. The first one is self-explanatory. It tells us that in order to have good friends and make friends you should not criticize them for the way they look and what people tell you based on them. The second technique is telling us that being honest and sincere can lead you to a lot .You should also show honesty and sincere appreciation for what people bring to the table. The last technique is pretty hard to understand. He says that the people who are eager to show what they want in meeting new people.